A couple of weeks back, Eli accidentally slammed his left little finger by a door, it bled a lot so i wrapped the injured nail with a waterproof bandage. Few days after, his nail started to look “pale” and the half top of his nail was avulsed from the underlying nail bed. He didn’t complaint any pain, also i didn’t see any swelling or redness, so i didn’t do anything but just waiting for his nail fall off itself.


Eli was pretty careful since then, but yesterday night the horror scene happened while i was making milk for Jo and Eli as almost 90% of his nail was going to fall off from the nail bed, it wrenched me a lot to see his nail but i couldn’t do anything because he didn’t let me to touch his nail. I was real mad, honestly, i would pull away Jo’s nail if i could find a plier, i would definitely want him to experience how painful of losing nail. Jo has not been behaving well since we were back in KK, always fighting with Eli and he has finally caused Eli such physical trauma because fighting for a little toy. Eli was the first to play the toy, but Jo still wanted to snatch from Eli although my mum stopped him sternly.
Jo looked pretty heavy-hearted after seeing Eli crying sorrowfully there, but so what, he still wanted to fight with Eli this early morning. Sigh, he truly can’t part from his daddy as he simply looks like ill breeding now, so i hope Jo can behave himself again once we back in CN.

November 6th, 2009 at 6:33 pm
Awwww… poor Eli! *hugs*
November 6th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
aiya.. very painful ar.. mami’s heart lagi pain..
November 6th, 2009 at 7:55 pm
Ouch! Poor Eli… hope there’s no more pain edi. I’m sure Jo din mean to hurt Eli. U know lah boys, they dunno the meaning of being gentle.
November 6th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Poor Eli. It must be very painful. Mummy keep your cool ok.
November 6th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
poor boy… it must be very painful …
November 6th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
oh dear.. that must be real painful! he is a brave little boy from what i read in your post. yes, the nail will definitely drop off and will grow again, younger kids healing are faster than us adults.. my toe nail, once damaged is now forever damaged.. old already ma.. so it doesnt stick to my toe anymore..
November 7th, 2009 at 12:34 am
oww…painful
November 7th, 2009 at 12:46 am
Hopefully aft this painful lesson, Jo will be more tolerant to Eli..poor Eli..i felt the pain too..
November 7th, 2009 at 9:46 am
oh no..poor Eli. Very heartbreaking indeed.
November 7th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
eeeeewww it must be very painful. if u bring to doc, the actual way is to pull out everything n let is re-grow. doctor will spray something very cooling n he wont even notice..
November 7th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
Poor boy! Must be so scary for him…he’s really brave though…
November 9th, 2009 at 9:15 am
Big, big ouch! Hope the nail is growing well and that the pain has subsided.
November 9th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
POor Eli. Hope it’s better soon. Perhaps Jo really misses his daddy huh? When are you doing back to CN?
November 9th, 2009 at 1:58 pm
Hugs Hugs to Eli…
Get Well Soon…
November 9th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
ouchhh…i can imagine how painful it is. Poor little Eli boy!!!
November 9th, 2009 at 4:41 pm
ouch!!! hope it will grow back soon.. i feel very pain..
November 10th, 2009 at 9:30 am
the sight of the damaged little nail was suffice to make me pain too….poor Eli
good luck to u……
but thk god he didn’t suffered much pain like u said…surprise ehh !!
as for the boys fighting…i can so so much relate to it, at least in your situation, the little brother (being the smaller & weaker one) will succumb to the battle….imagine mine… both can be equally strong, violent & aggressive & at times could end up hurting themselves
November 10th, 2009 at 2:50 pm
oh it look so painful, poor Eli. Recover soon ya.
November 12th, 2009 at 12:58 am
Ough! That’s hurt… hope he’s recovering now
November 12th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
aiyo…poor boy. must be wrapped too tight until it turns blue purple. good to see it is recovering now. So Eli, be careful in future, k
November 13th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
Boys….never ending giving heart attacks!!!
November 14th, 2009 at 9:23 pm
Poor Eli, hope he gets well soon.
November 15th, 2009 at 4:28 pm
wah piang…hope his little finger is much better by now!!! looks really really painful!
November 17th, 2009 at 10:51 am
don’t worry, sure ur boy’s finger will recover very fast.
when a mother gets angry, you’ll say anything….but i’m sure u’ll not want ur another boy to suffer the same pain.
November 20th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
not sure if you have started Jo on Sunday school..if not, this is something you can try…
November 23rd, 2009 at 9:37 pm
Yikes. Look soooo painful leh.
November 24th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Looks very painful…. speedy recovery…
November 30th, 2009 at 12:54 am
Oooo…that looks painful. I have a problem with my toe nails too but it’s nowhere near as bad as this but it’s still painful. So I can only imagine how much worse the pain is for Eli!
December 3rd, 2009 at 6:00 pm
eyor.. look so painful. kesian Eli. If me i wait until he sleept then snip it off lil by lil. hope he is getting better now.
December 4th, 2009 at 10:28 am
aiyo i tot i left a comment then it disappeared.
ouch must be really painful. should haf recovered by now?
December 5th, 2009 at 5:58 pm
Sigh, I can feel the pain
December 13th, 2009 at 9:34 pm
This was what happened to Sherilyn when she was 2yo. An xray showed that the thumb bone chipped. The nail eventually fell off. Now, her thumb is A-ok!
December 14th, 2009 at 1:12 am
ouch!! the moment i saw the photo i could actually “feel” the pain!
December 16th, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Oh, look so painful. Hope he is getting better now.
December 16th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
Oh, must be very pain! Hope it is recovered by now!
December 18th, 2009 at 2:21 am
Don’t you worry…kids have amazing recovery rates. His nail will be back to normal in no time at all!
January 7th, 2010 at 3:24 pm
Eww…. I think Jo doesn’t know his bro is in pain.. kids ma..
But don’t worry.. Eli will recover fast.